Attach and Go: How I like my Femini the realbreast form

As a transgender woman, I do have that desire for perfect boobs. Of course, there will always be surgery and implants but I never once thought of getting these. I wanted something none invasive, fast, not painful, and natural looking. With all these demands, I thought I am never going to get what I truly want. Thankfully, one of my fellow tranny friends introduced to a product called femini the realbreast form from http://www.cross-dress.co.uk/…/108-femini-admire-breast-for… especially catered for transsexuals like me.
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femini the realbreast form is basically two silicone made boobs that you attach to your chest area. They’re prosthetics designed to mimic the whole shape and look of real female breasts. So far so good right? This also comes in different sizes which is good as I am a very “slim” girl and would want smaller boobs for that realistic look. I was a bit apprehensive about how it will remain “attached” to the body though but decided to make the purchase and just see if this is the real deal like what my friend has attested.

About 10 days later, I got my order. It came in a small secure box with instructions on how to use. The insides of the breast forms have a “sticker-like” tape that attaches to your skin. It is easy to peel off and adjust, just do it carefully as I have experienced pulling them fast caused my skin to burn. Anyhow, once you have properly positioned your breast form try and apply some skin tone concealer to the sides for that more natural look (I need to purchase darker colored ones for my Asian skin). It blended in pretty well anyways.
I tried wearing it for 8 hours straight but found it to slip every so often especially when sweating or walking fast. It is best to use this with a bra for extra support and stability (Do not use without bra or else!) Product claims you can wear it for days but I would rather not. Prolonged contact with the skin may cause irritation and discomfort. This really is for attachment, going, and detachment.
I would definitely recommend “femini the realbreast form” for trans-women who want instant boobs that they can put on and remove anytime they wanted. Just remember to avoid using for one whole day. This is how I like my breasts – easy to detach, easier to re-attach.

How to Speak like a Woman (Male to Female Transforma

#SG3  #FEMINIJUSTFITVEST  #crossdressuk There’s more to speaking like a woman than the sound of your voice.

The words you use (and how you use them) are just as important!

It doesn’t matter how good you look or how “passable” your feminine voice might be…

If you speak like a guy, you’re going to send mixed messages to people.

Here are the main differences between guy-speak and girl-speak:

Men tend to be more direct and task-oriented in their communication. They use their words for the purpose of achieving results.
Women tend to be more “circular” and detail-oriented in their communication. They use their words for the purpose of forming relationships.
So what’s the secret to achieving a distinctly feminine style of communication?

Here are 3 tips for speaking like a woman:

1. Feminize your vocabulary

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Men and women have very different vocabularies, so it’s critical to incorporate feminine words into your speech. Here are some key distinctions:

Women tend to use more descriptive adjectives. A woman wouldn’t tell you about the “pink dress” she just bought. She’d tell you about the “adorable fuchsia Diane Von Furstenberg wrap dress” she just maxed out her credit card on.
Men and women use different words for the same thing. For example, a guy might call the lower abdomen the “gut” or “belly”, whereas a woman would be more likely to call it the “tummy” or “abdomen”.
To expand your feminine vocabulary, listen to women in real life, on TV, and in movies. Read women’s magazines. Look and listen for words you don’t use and incorporate a few new words or descriptive phrases into your vocabulary each week.

2. Talk more

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Studies show that women speak three times as much a men. While this isn’t a universal truth (my fiancé DEFINITELY outtalks me), it’s something to consider.

Are you one of those people who answers questions with one word? If so, practice expanding on your answers. Include more details and/or how you feel about the situation. (Yes, talk about your feelings, girlfriend!)

Of course, this does NOT mean you should drone on and on about yourself. Women are also typically good listeners, so make sure you listen as much as you speak.

3. Ask more questions

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Finally, since women use their words to form relationships, they tend to ask more questions. Men tend to tell rather than ask. If a man asks a question, it’s to get down to the point.

Practice asking more questions the next time you have a conversation with somebody. Not only is this more feminine, it makes the other person feel validated because you’re showing interest in them.

Want to learn more about the differences between masculine and feminine communication? Check out the video below to dive deeper into this topic.


As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts…

How important is feminine communication to you? Do you struggle with this or have you mastered the art of girl talk?

Please share in the comments below!

The Transgender Body

I was always curious about transgenders and crossdressers and pondered upon that thought of how they were able to transform themselves to look like real women. I know the body/physical shape of a man and women are quite different yet they are still able to manage that completely feminine and unrecognizable look.
And so I did some browsing on the internet and stumbled upon a website called cross-dressshop.co.uk They had a bunch of cross-dressing products for every feminine gay people in the world. I was definitely intrigued! One thing that caught my eye was this photo of a transgender whom you would never expect used to be a male! She has blonde hair, a curvaceous body, no bulge, and very big breasts! She was using a body shape girdle which apparently tightened her tummy, legs and lifted her butt up. It also “pushed” her boobs up for a bigger look.
It made me think, anything is possible nowadays and thanks to the intelligent engineering of the people of today. Every single transgender like me can look more and more female like the photo I saw. I so can’t wait to see more of their products as I explore my femininity.#SG3 #FEMINIJUSTFITVEST #crossdressuk

Heavenly Touch: Woman’s Hands in Seconds

I have always had these “man hands” and I so hate it. I mean, I am a girl trapped inside a man’s body and it’s just not right to have such manly hands! I have tried products such as lotions, creams, and moisturizers to help soften and remove my calluses but sadly, I did not even see a single change in texture and appearance. So I decided to take things one step further, and no I am not talking about surgery!

I found this particular website called cross-dress.co.uk *link underneath*  It is apparently an online store that caters to transgender women such as myself to achieve that very feminine look in a very practical, realistic, and instantaneous way. So upon going through their website, I found a particular product that got my attention it is called “Femini Silicone Glove SG3”. I attached a photo for your reference.
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Femini Silicone Glove SG3 give you instant feminine hands that can cover big veins, calluses, and scars and give you silky smooth skin for only $350!  Anyways,  I was a bit hesitant at first since I thought that it is just some plastic glove but then I decided to purchase one as it may be might last hope to achieve my desire of having girly hands and fingers. After a few days I then got my product. And so the trial begins!

Femini Silicone Glove SG3 only came in one size but surprisingly it fit me like a glove *pun intended*.  The insides felt really good and did not make me sweat. It was quite comfortable actually. My fingers fit and did not in any way felt constricted as I had large hands. Overall, it fit me really well. I asked a friend of mine to feel it while I am using it and she said it felt like real human skin! No wonder since it is made of high grade quality silicone material. Fingernails are nice looking too and you can even change them!
Overall, I like it so far as not only is it comfortable but it felt like actual female skin! I felt more feminine indeed. I however, did not like how it sometimes tends to fold whenever I bend my arm. It could be more fluid in my opinion. Also, needs to have more colors to choose from for people with darker or lighter skin tones.


I encourage you ladies to try it out and see for yourself. Remember, nothing compares to the heavenly touch of a woman’s hand. So hide those man hands now!!!

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While perusing the magazine section the other day, I came across an article in OUT magazine called “When Your Wife’s Bra Wont Fit You” by Chadwick Moore which talked about the underground world of support groups for gender diverse people and their families.  Specifically, the article featured the New York-based group Crossdressers International (CDI) - a members only support group that works in tandem with Miss Vera’s Finishing School for Boys Who Want to Be Girls.  Ironically, the academy is run by a woman named Veronica Vera who operates the school out of her Chelsea apartment.



Part of Miss Vera’s mission is to “help wives understand and embrace their husbands’ cross-dressing desires.” The academy also offers a locker room so that closeted crossdressers and people in transition can come together to get dolled up, get make-up and wig lessons, practice walking in heels, or just relax in peace.  Anonymity is crucial so real names are never used.  Essentially, it is a day spa for crossdressers.

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Anais Nin

Anais Nin
(February 21, 1903 – January 14, 1977) was a French-Cuban author, based at first in France and later in the United States, who published journals, novels, critical studies, essays, short stories, and erotica.http://www.cross-dress.co.uk/en/female-breast-suit/13-femini-just-fit-vest-rope.html

The famous bisexual:Bessie Smith

(April 15, 1894 – September 26, 1937) Bessie Smith was born poor in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Her parents died when she was eight years old and she began singing to support her family at age seven. She sang on street corners with her brother accompanying her on guitar. Smith's heart-wrenching blues reflected the harsh realities experienced by the black underclass in the Jim Crow era. Bessie Smith went on to become the most popular female blues singer of the 1920s and 1930s. Her first recording, “Downhearted Blues”, established her as the most successful black vocalist of her time. More than any other performer, she was responsible for introducing the blues into the mainstream of American popular music.crossdress

FAMOUS BISEXUALS:Georgio Armani

(born 11 July 1934) is an Italian fashion designer, particularly noted for his menswear. He is known today for his clean, tailored lines. He formed his company, Armani, in 1975, and went on to become one of the most successful designers in history accumulating a personal fortune worth over $8 billion. In an interview, Armani told Vanity Fair magazine "I have had women in my life. And sometimes men... to do this work, one must have a free mind."